Stay at home mom blues?

You're sick and you've had surgery. Your husband is being a lazy jerk and needs to realize that. I can't believe he expects you to cook and clean plus take care of your son when you are recovering from surgery. Cut back on the cooking and cleaning and make it easier for yourself. Get some things at the grocery store that require little to no cooking and get some paper plates/cups/spoons/forks. It doesn't have to be unhealthy - you can get sandwich stuff, a veggie tray, fruit, crackers, cheese, peanut butter, nuts, etc. Don't worry so much about the cleaning, your house doesn't have to be spotless. If you're husband has a problem with this tell him to stuff it. He works long hours 4 days a week but that means he's off for three and on his days off he should help with the cleaning. He may have to do more than his share until you recover from your surgery and he'll just have to deal with that. I also strongly suggest that when you feel better you should look for a job to get him off your case about the housework. He feels entitled that you should take care of all that because you stay home, getting a job would get rid of his excuses.